Why has my Partner has become really disinterested in sex?

There is a six year gap between us (He is 30 and I'm 24) He is in the army, he's had four kids been married, we've been together for six months now, I know for a fact he loves me very much and finds me attractive but its getting frustrating for me as he has become really disinterested in sex.

Sex for me is fun I don't want it all the time but I'm always up for it, but I don't understand how he can almost never want it. we'd been apart for three weeks (training course he was on) and when he got back I was so excited cause I thought he would ravage me but it never happened.

I even got us tickets to sexpo to see if that might help... nope.
I love hanging out with him and we are best friends and the sex is great when I get it but how do I get it back in our lives?

We had a chat about it, cause yes I got all emo over it, and started to cry cause everything is perfect except its like that Not Fair Song By Lily Allen, Yup Oh Woe'st me.






Answer :
Sorry that you are going through this...could be a few things. Could be another woman. First instinct is to go there.

It could be that he is just too tired, working long hours..Stress.
And you know, he could be masturbating...some guys get addicted to it. Is he having trouble staying aroused? If so, have his blood pressure checked, and get a physical. Other than that just keep communicating...it is strange being a guy, sometimes its mental. It is normal for men to go through a "dry spell" but he needs to talk to you and you need to really be understanding and try not to pressure him. Let him know you are there for him, try taking time on his day off, no pressure, just lay around in bed listening to music, watching tv...talking, touching...let him take the lead, see what happens... GOOD LUCK!!

I can be such a paranoid person but he has assured me there is no other woman in his life and I believe him whole heartedly.
I think you are right about the dry spell and that he has a lot of time to think about things and it gets him down. time will be the answer thanks!







Answer :
Hi, it seems for what ever reason he is avoiding it, it cannot be spokent to you. Sometimes you
need to have patience and though you are up and all happy , he is going through something.

Soon enough you will know. It could be somebody else, it could be he is medically unfit in some way ! It could be an emotional issue ......? Or he is trying to break up.

Men are not like woman and can't wait to blab .... Men freak when they have to confront an issue.






Answer :
he has realized that he is cheating with his family so he is avoiding u, see he is in army and he must have seen death very closely so he understood that be loyal atleast to himself, so help him in his good thoughts and u 2 follow it